Feel like breaking something...

Hey guys, feel no need to reply to this I just want to write this down and doing it publicly helps a bit, I guess.

Now I am not a hateful person, and I hoped that I would never have to hate someone this much, but I hate my mom's boyfriend so much that I'm not even going to go to my mom's house anymore (it's my choice). Now before you start thinking, "oh, this happens with a lot of people and their stepdads/stepmoms", let me tell you that it is different than that. I would hate this thing even if he had nothing to do with my mom. Also, he forced my sister out of the house, so I can only see her a little.

My mom wants to get him out of the house, too, but honestly, she's scared of him. He has never hit anyone in ym family, but the is the biggest dirtbag ***hole that I have ever met. He brings in almost no money to the house, and picks fights with everyone. Usually when I'm over there I just chill in my room and play video games or find a way to get out of the house.

Well today I got a rare day off from a Speed and Agility Camp that I've been going to at my high school. On an unrelated subject, I just cut my hand on accident and it hurts a lot. Okay, back to the actual subject, I slept until 1:15 today (after getting up at 7:30 for the past 2 weeks, and I'm not a morning person), and he got pissed I guess, but I didn't really care. Then my mom calls me from work and asks me to do something with the recycle bins so I go outside and begin to do it.

Then, he just comes out and is like "Do you have a problem with me?!"
out of nowhere, and I didn't even know what he was talking about. Now just so you know, he's probably the most cocky person I've ever met, and I can't bear to even hear him talk. Moving on, I answered with, "what?", and he starts yelling at me about how I stay up too late and I'm lazy and I'm a bad person and how stupid I am. He once said something about how I have "video game crack" and I was just like, "what does that even mean?". Then later he was saying stuff about how I just silently whine in my bedroom and I said I didn't even understand what he was saying, and he said something to the effect of "oh well, excuse me; sorry I don't have as high of a vocabulary of you that I can't make you understand what I'm saying." Of course, lots of obsenities were spread out through this. And then somehow he brought up the argument moved to how I wasn't putting down the "heavy" toilet seat carefully enough (yeah, I know it's ridiculous). My mom had asked me if I could put it down more carefully the night before, and I said I would, and I told him that, and I said that she told me that and I would. Then he starts alling me stupid because I couldn't figure this out before, on my own (because I should've known that I was putting down the toilet seat too ahrd, right?). And he starts comparing it to slamming the door, which I don't even do. And I was just like, "wow, this is ridiculous, I don't want to argue about this anymore," and he started saying how my whole argument was based on the toilet seat, and he brought it up! So I just ended up leaving, because the argument was stupid. He starts shouting bad names at me while I'm walking down the road (my dad's house is like, 2 miles away). I remember him calling me a "video game playing mother ****er". So I got to my dad's, I thought awhile, I called my sister, who's in Florida right now. I complainede for a while, then I thought some more. I'm going on vaction with my dad tomorrow, so I'm just going to sleep here tonight. I went and got my stuff from my mom's house for the vacation (including my PS2, which I know had 2 memory cards in it). When I got back to my dad's house I hook it up and notice the memory cards are gone. I search for a while, then call my mom. I guess he went into my room, and took my memory cards and hid them, but he said there was only one. I know he's lying, he probably gave one away or broke it, but I don't even care about the card anymore. This was the last straw, I will get my memory card back, but I am not going to live there anymore. I cannot even stand to be over there. My mom got the one he said he took, but I know there was 2. I told my mom I'm not going back, and she started crying (which she was doing anyway). And now I'm here at my dad's typing this.

Thanks for reading, and thanks to Afterdawn for the chance to post this here. Reply if you want, but I don't really car eif you do or not.

 

If your mom wants him out too, then she needs to find (or you do) the nearest women's support organization that can tell her exactly how to go about it....the sad fact is that there are many such organizations.

I am a social worker by profession and could very easily go about finding one along with a name and a contact phone number if you PM me and tell me your city/town and your zip code (not your address). I would go visit them yourself first, tell the counselor exactly what you wrote here and follow her advice as to how to get your mom to talk to her (she'll probably be unwilling). If your mom really wants him out, you could be extremely useful in initiating it while at the same time showing your mom that you're not a kid anymore. Empower yourself and help to empower your mom; sitting around worrying accomplishes nothing. Most women in your moms situation can't see the forest for the trees and need the help of a clear and objective person who know what they're doing. Ultimately it's up to your mom, but you can give her the tools.

 

just keep "accidently" ruining his sh*t, and he'll just get so p*ssed that he'll just leave


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and go on kiddy porn and show ur mom it when he is there and say he went on it

 

Do you have a bunch of good friends that can keep there mouths shut?
if you do,have them do this at night..when the jerk is out for a walk or coming out of a bar..or what ever....have ye friends on the run
with a base-ball bat smash only one of his knees..so bad he can not walk..
later on...
now hes just where ye want him..since he can not walk,if ye gives you any shit at home punch his face with about 5 hard smacks and then call the police and file charges he assaulted you.and you were defending your self.then get a court order while hes in jail to keep him from returning to the house..

 

LOL! A kiddie porn set up to first degree felony assault. You two need to come to work at our office!