How to: Mod a DS lite?

Can someone point me to the most and best thread for this? I would like to softmod if possible.

 

I have been on this board for over a year and haven't seen a guide regarding flashme (softmod).

NO ONE softmods a DS since the advent of passme/flashcarts.

Those that do usually end up with a brick.

Flashcarts are easier and more reliable.

 

Nice. Is there a guide on how to do this somewhere?

 

Guide on which? (flashme or flashcart)

I just said that I haven't seen a guide on Flashme on this website in the year I've been on this board because NO ONE (with any sense) softmods a DS.

Go out and Google "flashme"

If you're asking for a guide on flashcarts, there are several, since this question is asked several times a week.

 

Is flashcarts what's preferred?

 

Yes. Yes it is. And as dailun has said this topic has been covered many times. Use the search function or look down the page.