I need some help.....

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  1. macburner

    macburner Guest

    Theres this girl in my english class. (im in high school) and I really want to ask her out....
    but im not sure she even knows that I even exist. So how can I go about this should I just
    ask her to the upcoming winter formal or what should I do?
     
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  2. nelswick

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    You gotta talk to her first mannn. Get her screen name or her phone number and then wait like a week so she doesn't think you like her and call her up. Buy her some flowers if you want to.
     
  3. WiteWizrd

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    Make her laugh.

    find something funny about your english teacher, or something you both can relate 2 (i picked the teacher cuz you have the same class so that would be easy) and make a joke.
    just lean over to her one day after class or right before it begins.

    ex.your teacher always coughs and cracks his neck by cocking it to the left. so when you joke with her do it right before class begins and do that motion then 20 sec. later when your teacher does it, she will laugh and look over at you....where you will be waiting with a smile.

    retarded example, but you get the idea. if you can make her laugh even if its on of those cute hehe, half smiles....thats all you need, then BOOM you will be officially alive in her eyes. good luck man, let me know what you decide to do.
     
  4. sui-cyco

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    if she doesnt even know you exist then that is a good sign she might not like you.im not trying to break your heart or anything but you could make yourself look like a big dork if you try to play her real subtle like.if you get a chance to talk to her then talk to her like someone who isnt stalking her.youll get the feel if she might like you on the way she reacts to you.and dont pick on your teacher.that is real lame.besides she might think youre a jerk.unless your teacher is an obnoxous person then pick on him/her anyway,regardless if you are trying to impress someone.
     
  5. andmerr

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    @ sui-cyco; your a counsellor aren't you.

    its rather simple: talk to her, be your self and not try to be something your not.If she cant see you for what you are then she's not the one for you.Goodluck in your endeavors, this one may not be a success but if you keep trying ,eventually the right one will come along and man you want know your self.

    O'h about the upcoming formal, if you dont ask your not going to get an answer.Who knows she may surprise you and say yes
     
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  6. Mik3h

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    Might as well go for it, remember to stay confident!

    -Mike
     
  7. sui-cyco

    sui-cyco Regular member

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    i try.im not good with sensitive subjects.i just didnt want to see the kid get his hopes up and walk into a brick wall.but doing cheesy stuff like baking a cake for a girl or something like that might have worked in 1930 but today it wont get you anywhere.only in the movies does that work.just dont look or act desperate when you talk to her.
     
  8. andmerr

    andmerr Guest

    actaully the cheesy stuff does work on the women who are'nt so superficial and wrapped up in there self.
     
  9. sui-cyco

    sui-cyco Regular member

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    where do you find those women at?is there such a place?just kiddin ya.but honestly most women arent that way anymore.i can only speak of my experience in america.alot of women are now going for the gangsta image.and nothing says i love you more than guns and roses.
     

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