ok i used a online translator (free) to get most of what it is all about but there are some words - maybe due to me spelling it wrong that i cant translate, is you want to have a go at it please feel free. My x mother inlaw and i had a huge aruguement a few days before this ( she's protecting her daughter blaming me for her cheating on me, mmmm yer right) when i was at home with our chn. Anyway the x mother inlaw didnt like it when i paid her out about her husband cheating on her with his wife's sister's daughter (16-17yrs old) i got this translated pasoldas I have said to him that my friend venia agudarvies to take to things to otio nonqueina town and to esaidiar ze to me is pueito the hands in oides to said to me that all ectaurs crazy and juera me for the kitchen I am this pardon to him? and the a continued rumoring misuio diahe llauiodo sei father so that it brings remorgue to me, has come without remorgue because it says that entindio that she took to me around and I have said not nonthanks to him, there is evipezodo to speak and to say to palabrolas I have said comiporlate please to him and pardon has requested me. ehlee is hallodo of many enclosures for bullfighting other ls problem that they have nuestres juentos children to said that he thinks that bel crazy act the hormanos otio man and who I many cases I have not said delejames aqui to him and we respect his dicisiones they already are greater - I am estoclo euy euy calm and have been enclosures for bullfighting that I podia to have said but have not said noela to him but the letter goes something like this - some words i either cant interpet and misspelt - but please have a go pasoldas le he dicho que mi amigo venia agudarvies a llevar cosas al otro pueblo y no queina esaidiarme se ha pueito los manos en los oides me a dicho que todas ectaurs locos y me juera para la cocina yo le he dicho perdon? y el a seguido rumoreando el misuio diahe llauiodo a sei padre para que me traiga el remorgue, ha venido sin remorgue porque dice que entindio que me llevara alrededor y yo le he dicho no no gracias, ha evipezodo hablar y decir palabrolas yo le he dicho por favor comiporlate y me ha pedido perdon. ha hallodo de muchos cosos ehlee otras l problem que tienen juentos nuestres hijos a dicho que el cree que bel acta loca las hormanos otio hombre y que yo no se muchos casos yo le he dicho lo delejames aqui y respetemos sus dicisiones ellas ya son mayores - yo he estoclo euy euy serena y ha habido cosos que yo podia haberle dicho pero no he dicho noela
of course she's going to blame you, thats her daughter! a word of advice from someone who's been married twice now, you will NOT win against a woman and her mother, period. if your grapes are still attached, consider yourself lucky and run like hell while you can! and just because i'm the curious type, if it's already your "ex" mother in law, why do you even care?? you got out, you did what most of us cant, now run with it and move on with your life.
heheheh thanks darthnip - u actually put a smile on my face! so why do i even care about this - man where can i start - in a few words, my x's mind games......hmm....and one more word for the day - settlement - as well as trying to find some final truths because she now states she loves me and wants me back - after leaving me for 3mths, and not tellin my why or a reason - all i got was she loves me etc etc oh yer and with that also came the her solicitor, child support, full child access, with some causual sex with her through all this, (man this became a total head fusk for me) 3mths she told me bullshit, until i decide to paid her a visit in the town she moved to......best thing i ever done, found this guys car who i questioned her about before she left with everything and of course she deined then and even to this day that they are together. in that 3mths she told me she never see's him - when i went down there he was alone at her house babysitting our daughter why she worked out of town that day, hmmmm i guess that say's it all (she say's his just a friend) maybe i trying to find out something/anything that i never will find the extact truth about. every little bit helps and down its coming down to the final settlement, out of the blue she tells me that she wants to try and work things out? and she loves me, misses me? but i feel its all just until final settlement and just another part of her and her mums game to f$#$ me up. I have stopped talkin to her and am trying to find a job as far away from here/her as possiable - she does amit that she fucked up in doing this to our family and i kinda believe that, but................the letter was given to me by her friend, i kinda hoped to get some from it, but it kinda goes on about me and her mum havin a huge argument, and a little other stuff.........
well my friend, i'll tell you the one most valuable piece of advice that was given to me when me and my ex went thru the EXACT same thing, and it was given to me by my mother.... if you go to the fridge and pull out the milk and it's spoiled, you dont put it back in hoping it will be fresh tomorrow.
classic darthnip - the thing is that everything is there and points to it being true, but is it? but for her to do this, tells me something fucked up has happened (it kinda came outta of the blue for me, but i guess she'd been planning this for awhile) does she regret it, maybe, but as she say's she's fusk this up? whatever reason she did this......i just dont know? but i am trying to throw away the old milk, and maybe oneday something will fall off the milk truck when it passes me by................. thanks darthnip
sometimes the thing that makes them realize they f'd up is having the guy she left you for dumped her. so now out of sheer desperation she runs back to the familar. if you truly want to know if things could ever be the way they were between you just tell her that she messed your head up and you need some time alone to figure it out. give it a month or so and see if she still feels the same. that provides 2 functions; 1. it gives you time to not think about it and live a little bit, go get a chic for some casual dating and something just to get your mind off of it. if that feels great to you, then you need to put some deep thought into whether the relationship is worth saving to YOU. 2. it will give her time to think about what she has done, but better yet, it gives her time to think about all the stuff you COULD be doing during this "alone time." if she still wants you after all that, then she is probably sincere in her efforts to get back together, In either case you win, if you tell her you need some time and she is against it, then she doesn't care how you feel about what has been done to you, and she feels no guilt whatsoever. you benefit by getting a jump on getting on with your life without her. if you take the time and she lets you, and she's still waiting for you when you are ready to go back with a clear head, then you guys will probably make out just fine. the one thing you both must remember if you do get back together is this, and it's very important if you want it to last, no one speaks of it from either side, just let it go, pretend it never happened or whatever but throwing in each others faces all the time, you're going to end up right where you are now.
that again darthnip is probally the best advice i have got........and unfortunitly for you, i guess it may have came down to an experience you may have had. But your so right, all i seem to be doing is throwing it all back in her face, picking little things and turning it all against her. its sooooo F^$@ up - i tell her not to call, but then expect her to call the next day (its that messed up) i have asked her to leave me alone for awhile but the longest is 2 weeks before she wants to meet or chat? the last few days i have been throwing it all at her - but because of everything, it seems that she says she left because she was messed up, listening to all the wrong people, and tells me she doesnt really know? i kinda wish it was something i done, but its not? but through this we have losted so much and i cant for the life understand why?how? she decided to do this? and after so many months turn around and so she wants to work things out........man........its crazy.......i have asked her to tell me everything so i can try and can over it or just finish it......try and understand this? find some answers, and her told me that her old girl and her european friends told her to get a solicitor, also her old girl to everyone that it was me and my fault and so on............but her family never really got on well, and i guess my x and my family didnt get on well either. thanks again darthnip
dude it seriously sounds like you need to just cut it off clean, she's pretty whacked. there's plenty more where that one came from.
