Xlink kai connect but letting anyone to join

i connet to xlink kai but no one can't join my game, sometime people get stuck in que it seems.

 

make sure you have forwarded your ports and your firewalls our on low.....and can you join other games???

 

where can i go to find out more about port fowarding an dhow to configure it?

 

also change your status so that it says you are a host otherwise your game doesn't even show up

 

go to the xlink kai homepage they have walk through on port forwarding in there faq page....