help me i messed up my xbox

Help me out here someone....

well i got the xenium spice today i check all the guides but none of them has for my motherboard
i have a version 1.0 it says kernel 3944 on the mother board so i am guessing it is a 1.0...
what do i have to do?
i try everything
what are the steps for my version of motherboard
i read one that u dont need to put the little board one with the four gold wire

what i did was just put the black thing with all pins to the lpc then put the do wire to the one the guide says to put then i just put in the xenium chip like it says i turn on my xbox it turns off and on like two or three nothing comes up in the screen

i did the other way put black thing first the this white with four wires then i from their i dont know where to put those wires because the clear plate i dont wear to put because in the guide it says to put it on top of a chip but mine mother board doesn't looks like the one in the guide
then i just randomly connected the wires near the wires but no luck

help me out here
what am i doing wrong or what do i need to do
i really dont want to use solder here..